How Do I Regain Her Trust and How Do I Trust Her?
Two of the BIG questions we hear a LOT from recovering porn/sex addicts is: "How do I get her to trust me again?" and "How do I trust...
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Mark & Steve
Jul 21, 20201 min read
How Do I Ever TRUST my Porn/Sex Addicted Spouse Again?
Discovering your spouse has a porn/sex addiction triggers Betrayal Trauma and SHATTERS trust! HOW can you ever get to the place where you...
Mark & Steve
Jul 14, 20201 min read
"Boundaried" Relationships Last—Even in the Midst of Porn Addiction & Betrayal Trauma!
For any relationship to last and thrive, there must be "boundaries." This is especially true when you're dealing with Porn Addiction and...
Mark & Steve
Jul 7, 20201 min read
Todd Tells His Sex Addiction Recovery Story—Part Two
This episode is "Part Two" of the interview with Todd, a former Mark and Steve client, who tells his raw and real story of recovery from...
Mark & Steve
Jun 30, 20201 min read
Let Go of the "Sexual Beast" and Embrace REAL Intimacy in Your Marriage!
In this episode, Mark and Steve address an issue submitted by a PBSE listener— Hi Guys! My husband loves your podcast. It's the only...
Mark & Steve
Jun 23, 20201 min read
Todd Tells His Sex Addiction Recovery Story—Part One
Todd, a former Mark and Steve client, tells his raw and real story of recovery from Sex and Porn Addiction. Todd also talks about how...
Mark & Steve
Jun 16, 20201 min read
Healthy Sex vs. Toxic Sex in Marriage
In this episode Mark and Steve openly discuss the differences between healthy and toxic sex in marriage— What are the differences between...
Mark & Steve
Jun 8, 20201 min read
How do you keep going in Recovery & Healing when you're Burned Out and just plain "Done"!
Mark and Steve know from personal experience and helping others, just how heavy, difficult, exhausting and discouraging addiction...
Mark & Steve
Jun 1, 20201 min read
Is it OK to Occasionally "Lie" if its in the Best Interest of Your Recovery or Healing?
We live in a world where honesty is a steadily shrinking virtue! Many in politics, sales, advertising and the media send a subtle or even...
Mark & Steve
May 25, 20201 min read
Those Darn Thinking Errors!—"Emotional Reasoning" and the "Unreal Ideal"
Addiction and Betrayal Trauma both have a dramatic impact on the brain and the heart! And one of the primary barriers to our recovery and...
Mark & Steve
May 18, 20201 min read
Pulling Out a Chair for God at Your Marriage Table.
If you want your marriage to truly be ALL that it can be, we HIGHLY recommend pulling out a chair for God at your marriage table. But...
Mark & Steve
May 11, 20201 min read
For the Spouse of an Addict—How to "Let Go and Let God."
The devastating pain and confusion caused by your husband's porn addiction can easily create a distance or wall between you and God. In...
Mark & Steve
May 4, 20201 min read
The "Addict" vs. "God"
In the midst of your struggles with pornography, can you also have a relationship with God? Mark and Steve talk open and raw about their...
Mark & Steve
Apr 27, 20201 min read
We Made All the Marriage Mistakes so YOU Don't Have To!—Part TWO
Stop screwing up your marriage! Learn from Mark and Steve's mistakes!
Mark & Steve
Apr 20, 20201 min read
We Made All the Marriage Mistakes so YOU Don't Have to!—Part One
During their deep addiction years, Mark and Steve made all the marriage mistakes you can imagine! Now they offer you a great gift—the...
Mark & Steve
Apr 14, 20201 min read
Two Former Porn Addicts—"If I Could Go Back in Time, WHAT Would I DO different?"
Mark and Steve get VERY raw and real about the struggles during their deep addiction years. Knowing what they know now—if they could go...
Mark & Steve
Apr 7, 20201 min read
Here's EXACTLY HOW to Use the "Surrender Tool" as an Addict, Spouse and Citizen
In this episode, Mark and Steve walk you through three REAL LIFE examples of HOW to use the "Surrender Tool" in times of overwhelming...
Mark & Steve
Mar 30, 20201 min read
How to Practice the Essential "Art of Surrender" in a Scary World!
Our natural tendency in addiction, betrayal trauma and current scary world events is to attempt to INCREASE the CONTROL we have over our...
Mark & Steve
Mar 23, 20201 min read
How to Get Out of Your "Coronavirus Brain" and TAKE CHARGE!
Right now a lot of people across the world are feeling pretty "powerless"! But, those of us who have suffered from addiction, betrayal...
Mark & Steve
Mar 16, 20201 min read
Managing Your Emotions & Triggers in These Trying Times!
During times of HIGH emotional stress, like the COVID 19 pandemic, "triggers" go up for the population as a whole, and especially for...
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